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Remove my web site from the equation because I did not seek out your husband or force my philosophy upon him. He sought out my site, as he no doubt had a habit of viewing female domination material behind your back. He was drawn to my approach as it gave him hope that he could share a part of his nature with the woman that he loves, from whom he previously had to hide due to a fear of being rejected by her. Your reaction to his confession shows that his fear of rejection was not unwarranted. Your husband displayed tremendous courage by introducing you to a lifestyle that he secretly desires, in spite of his fear that you would reject both him and the lifestyle.

It is not my intention to defend your husband. I have never met the man so I cannot comment on his character or his motivation. But I can tell you that I have counseled many men over the years that refused to muster the courage to approach their wives about this lifestyle. Instead, they chose to keep their true natures hidden and as a result they ended up sneaking behind their wives backs as they sought out domination from professionals, whom they ended up paying a handsome sum of money. Now which would you prefer? A husband who trusts you enough to bare his soul to you or a husband who hides his feelings from you out of a fear of being rejected and instead bares his soul to another woman?