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If wearing a little leather and using a whip will motivate him to treat you like Queen and will cause him to submit to your authority, then do it. Isn't a marriage supposed to be a win/win relationship where both partners are fulfilled by giving to each other? So give him what he needs in order to provide him with the motivation that he needs to give you what you need and deserve. He wants to treat you like a Queen. He wants to submit to you. He wants to worship崇拜侍奉 — adoring service you. It is up to you lead him where he wants to go. By doing this, you will experience much fulfillment and much satisfaction. Why not give it a sincere try? You just may gain a better marriage and a deeper, more meaningful relationship.

Q. Elise, I am enjoying this lifestyle as it has really transformed our marriage for the better. I love getting my way with my husband all the time. My only concern is that I will turn my husband into a wimp. On the one hand, I love his eagerness to serve me and obey me. But on the other hand I fear that I am making him a spineless, jellyfish of a man. I don't want to be married to a wimp. Can I dominate him in a way that doesn't turn him into a wimp?