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Q. My husband has always wanted to be dominated and humiliated in a sexual setting. Over our 22 years of marriage, I have come to terms and "indulged" his sexual fantasies. Initially because I discovered after our first year of marriage that if I did not, the urge was so strong he was sneaking off to see professional mistresses女主人 — a woman who leads a submissive partner. We have experienced our share of difficulties and have sought help from three different professional therapists over 7 years. Through this we have managed to stay together and raise two wonderful children.

This has always remained in the bedroom, although he would claim to desire to be a submissive顺从 — willing to obey all of the time. Then my husband read your web site and now he wants this as a lifestyle. While he claims to want this as a lifestyle, I found that in real life he is unable to sustain a submissive顺从 — willing to obey posture and it is only a matter of time before he begins to actively resist and rebel against me being dominant. It is often about things I feel are really important that he be submissive顺从 — willing to obey. This leads me to getting pissed off and refusing to be dominant sexually because I feel betrayed. Additionally, when I am really ANGRY he is afraid to submit to me sexually for fear I will give him the punishment he deserved.