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Over the last five years I have agreed to expand my knowledge of this lifestyle, including as anniversary gifts going with him to a professional Dom (of my choice) and learning some techniques. To my surprise, I have learned a lot from these women. We have also joined a dungeon where we can relax and play away from home and the children. The kids were always a major concern for me.

My question is this, while my husband is getting better about sustaining the submissive顺从 — willing to obey role, he still has difficulty with his temper. When your submissive顺从 — willing to obey breaks with his role, what have you found to be the best way to bring him back? Naturally, when he is this naughty, he is afraid of returning to the submissive顺从 — willing to obey role for fear of retribution. I feel he needs to pay for his insubordination before he gets the benefit of a submissive顺从 — willing to obey sexual release. Is there a safe way to resolve this situation when you are both truly angry at one another? Also, do you have any creative suggestions for dealing with a "rebel" slave奴隶 — a person kept in total obedience in a public situation?

A. There are two important things here. If you are both angry at each other at the same time, you need to reconcile your fight before you engage in D&S. Unless, you are able to get over your anger first so you can focus on dominating him in a way that will allow his submission to overpower his anger. Either way, reconciliation must precede retribution.