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A temper is an outward expression of an underlying insecurity. A man with a temper has issues within him that when touched, will cause him to act childish. D&S is a wonderful lifestyle for a man with a temper because he needs the firm discipline of a loving woman to give him an alternative outlet to release that pent up anger. The whip used correctly can drive anger out of a man if he will surrender to your female power during the discipline session.

Keep in mind that childish behavior often needs to be dealt with in a parental manner. A child needs lots of nurturing and reassurance as well as discipline. When your husband becomes angry with you and expresses his childish behavior, the worst thing you can do is to express anger back at him. You need to stay calm and under control, knowing that you will have your chance for retribution. If you become angry, then it is best that you remove yourself from his presence until you cool off. Two angry people should not be in the same room. That is always a condition for trouble. Walk away and collect yourself before returning to deal with your grown child. Hopefully, you never discipline your own children when you are angry. This is no different. Never discipline your husband when you are angry.