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Walk away from him, collect yourself and return with a strategy. That strategy depends on your husband's submissive顺从 — willing to obey nature. You know him better than anyone. What is it that stirs his submission? Does he have a leather fetish恋物 — a strong sexual focus on one thing? Does he have a foot fetish恋物 — a strong sexual focus on one thing? What is it that turns him submissive顺从 — willing to obey? You need to get his submission to overpower his anger so you can reconcile with him first. Then you can punish him for his temper tantrum.

I know my husband has a strong leather fetish恋物 — a strong sexual focus on one thing. After I cool down, I might dress in a sexy, leather outfit, return to him and order him to his knees. I can see the struggle within him as his hurt and anger wants to continue the fight but his submission wants to bow before me. I love watching that internal struggle within him. I will order him again in my most bitchy voice to bow before me and to kiss my boots or feet. Notice, I do not mention what we were fighting about. I approach it as a regular D&S session. Usually, my husband will submit and once he is kissing my boots or feet, his anger begins to leave his body and passion and submission will overtake him.