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A. Every woman goes through what you are experiencing. We all were beginners at one time. The best advice I can give you is to relax and just be yourself. Keep the lines of communication open with your submissive顺从 — willing to obey man and allow him to give you feedback after each session. Ask him if you spank him too hard or not hard enough. Don't worry, you cannot spank him too hard if you keep it to his ass臀部 — the buttocks cheeks. He may yelp and use his safe word安全词 — a word that means stop if you hit him too hard and then you can make the adjustment. It is best to start out light and build up to hard. That way you can build up his pain threshold. The same goes with grabbing his balls. Go ahead, grab and twist them. They are pretty resourceful. His body language will tell you if you are squeezing too hard.

Relax and be a physical woman. Get in the habit of touching, fondling and squeezing your man's anatomy. Experience only comes through practice. Reading is a great way to gain knowledge but practice is what will give you skill. We all make mistakes and I still sometimes hurt my man by doing something too hard or being too rough. But he is strong man and he survives and forgives me. He really has no choice and neither does your man. If he wants you to become an experienced and skilled Dom, then he will have to live with your learning experiences. Have fun.