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D&S is more about your attitude than your outfit. A woman who knows who she is and what she is about will command attention and submission from a man, regardless of her attire. Nevertheless, men are visually oriented and the outfits and props can greatly assist a woman as she uses a man's fetish恋物 — a strong sexual focus on one thing to stir his submissive顺从 — willing to obey nature. I must confess that a leather outfit helps to fuel my dominant attitude. The clothes make me feel dominant and thus I tend to act more dominant when wearing a fetish恋物 — a strong sexual focus on one thing outfit. I don't know if it is so much the clothes but rather the energy I perceive coming from the man when he sees me in the fetish恋物 — a strong sexual focus on one thing outfit. The props and my attire give me an edge and I use that edge to my advantage during a D&S scene.

It all boils down to your attitude and how your man responds to your dominance. If wearing a fetish恋物 — a strong sexual focus on one thing outfit makes you feel sexier and more dominant and thus enhances your dominant aura and attitude, why not wear one? If the appearance of you in a fetish恋物 — a strong sexual focus on one thing outfit causes your man to become overpowered with submission, it would be foolish not to use this weapon against him. But if wearing such an outfit has the opposite effect by making you feel suffocated and thus negatively impacts your attitude, then go with what works for you. Again, your attitude is the key.