Q&A Forum - January 2009 (best of Elise)

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When society refers to a wife as a “new mother” it is often meant as a negative comment, usually as an attack on a male’s manhood. Even within the FemDom女性支配 — female domination lifestyle, the term “new mother” is used to accuse a man of shrinking from his life obligations and to seek to return to the safety and care-free world of his childhood. However, the truth of the matter is the opposite. The man who will yield to his wife’s authority and who will submit to her will usually be a very productive male who fulfills his life responsibilities. It is the man who fights female authority in the home who ends up shirking responsibility. The man who hangs out with the guys and who leaves the household duties and parenting to the wife might think he is showing society who wears the pants but the truth is he is running from his marital obligations.

In contrast, the husband who views his wife as his authority figure and who will obey his wife, he will be the husband that is more likely to be seen doing household chores and spending time with his children. He is more likely to be faithful to his job and to others because he must give an account to his wife for his behavior.