Q&A Forum - January 2015

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A. Only you can answer this question but I think you know the answer and that is why you wrote me. You cannot walk away from who you are as a dominant woman. Yes, you can suppress your nature and you can sacrifice for this man and you can have a wonderful relationship with him, perhaps for a season, perhaps longer. But you know that your dominant desires will surface again. Maybe you can suppress them for months, maybe years but they will come back. I doubt if you will be able to experience your lover bathing you and washing your hair without those dominant energies stirring and wanting to bust through.

Again, only you can choose your path. If you want to put your dominant desires on hold for a season so you can pursue a relationship with this man, that is your call. But I would not marry him unless you can be totally honest with him. He needs to know you, how you really are, so prior to marriage you owe it to him, and more importantly to yourself, to be truthful to him about what you desire.