Q&A Forum - January 2015

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Who knows, you may be surprised. After all, why should you have to sacrifice who you are to be with him? If he loves you as much as you love him, why shouldn’t he sacrifice by agreeing to explore female domination with you? The odds are greater that he will willingly embrace the submissive顺从 — willing to obey role than they are that you can give up the dominant role. And there is the chance that he will decide that you two are not compatible. But wouldn’t you want to know this sooner than later? You need to find this out prior to marriage.

These are never easy situations because people can be complex. If you love this man, then you owe it to each other to be honest with each other. He might be more open to being submissive顺从 — willing to obey than you know. Perhaps that is why he enjoys bathing you and why he is so respectful to women. His challenge will be to overcome his upbringing and his culture. He may have to decide if he can reconcile your needs with his upbringing. Many relationships have been ended due to incompatible cultures and belief systems. In order for such a relationship to work, it takes one person to compromise their beliefs. Are you willing? Is he willing to do that for you? If not, is he worthy of you?