Q&A Forum - January 2003

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Encourage your husband to channel his submissive顺从 — willing to obey desires into his service of you. As his Queen, make the proclamation that such talk about hurting animals is forbidden under your rule and that if he brings it up again, you will punish him in a way that will not be pleasurable for him.

That would be my advice. Some desires should not be acted upon. He is not a bad person for having these desires and I give him credit for opening himself up to you about them. I am sure there is a reason he has this desire. Perhaps he visited a farm when he was a boy and one of his female relatives, that he found to be dominant and sexy, butchered an animal in front of him. I don't know but as his Mistress女主人 — a woman who leads a submissive partner, you need to help him to turn these destructive desires into positive ones. Submission is when a man surrenders his desires over to the desires of his Mistress女主人 — a woman who leads a submissive partner. You desire to protect animals so he needs to surrender this fantasy over to your will and submit to your judgment on this matter.

If he wants to see you be cruel, then tell him that he will be the only receiver of your sadism during any role-playing. Under the rule of a superior female, animals are loved and cared for.

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