Q&A Forum - January 2003

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I began performing as a dominatrix女支配者 — a dominant woman on stage for interactive bondage捆绑 — being tied or restrained shows. This is very different than being behind closed doors, a show is just that a show.

I find myself struggling with certain aspects of this new relationship. I suck at humiliation羞辱 — shame given on purpose, I think I am just to nice a person...I always feel bad about the things that I am saying. Insulting the size of his penis阴茎 — the male sex organ. Telling him he's nothing but a small insignificant man. Any ideas on how to overcome this? Also, he is into things that I am not familiar with...what is Queening坐脸 — sitting on a partner's face? Thank you very much for your time.

A. Queening坐脸 — sitting on a partner's face is where the dominant female sits her ass臀部 — the buttocks on the face of a submissive顺从 — willing to obey male and has him orally service her ass臀部 — the buttocks. This is a very erotic and pleasurable experience for the woman, and a very humiliating and submissive顺从 — willing to obey act for the male.

Most submissive顺从 — willing to obey men are extremely turned on by the female ass臀部 — the buttocks, its shape, appearance and softness. To a submissive顺从 — willing to obey man, the female ass臀部 — the buttocks also represents power to him. Not only does the submissive顺从 — willing to obey man crave to kiss and orally worship崇拜侍奉 — adoring service the feminine bottom but he also desires to be crushed by it. He desires to be held captive and helpless through the act of face sitting so that he is conquered and at the mercy of his Queen (thus the term Queening坐脸 — sitting on a partner's face).

Just make sure that you afford him the proper amount of air that he needs to breathe when Queeing a man. Few Female Domination activities will transport a man into the deep and submissive顺从 — willing to obey state known as subspace as fast as Queening坐脸 — sitting on a partner's face.