Q&A Forum - January 2003

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My Wife and I ordered your procedures some time ago and we have had a wonderful time working thru them. I have never felt more excited by and in love with my Wife than I do now; and find that her confidence is growing every week both as a dominant and as a person in her every day life. My respect for her has grown along with my appreciation for being so lucky to be married to such a beautiful and loving Wife who loves to dominate.

I wanted to write to you about a health and safety issue. Because I have found that when i've been denied orgasm高潮 — the sexual climax over about seven to fourteen days and when my Lady is arousing me and teasing me coming up to the time that we may have some space for a playtime together; I find that the more aroused i become (and I'm talking about complete mental ectasy and subspace from the things my Wife does and says) then I begin to develop a pain around the base of my penis阴茎 — the male sex organ and coldness in the testicles that i imagine may be my prostate becoming swollen from lack of release. The first time a woman dismissed my attentions in my teens I experienced a very similar sensation and a severe tightening of the sphincter from the excitement of her refusal.

It can get so uncomfortable that the eventual orgasm高潮 — the sexual climax is purely a relief of the pain and is an oddly detached Sensation similar to peeing. This extreme discomfort has only happened twice and we've been living in a semi Femdom女性支配 — female domination relationship with occasional orgasm高潮 — the sexual climax denial for years.