Q&A Forum - June/July 2020 (The best of Elise)

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However, I am not comfortable with your Real Stories section or most of your Q&A forum because it mostly deals with D&S and the sexual side of Female Authority. I feel a man should submit to his wife just because she is a female. She should not have to wear leather or become the object of his fantasies by dressing like a Dominatrix女支配者 — a dominant woman and branding a whip. Sex should be on the woman’s terms and if I want traditional sex (along with him orally servicing me) he should submit to what I want. If I want him to do all the housework, he should obey me without question.

To me, that is real Female Supremacy. The D&S is for the man and if I do that, he is getting what he wants and that puts me in the submissive顺从 — willing to obey role if I agree to engage in his fantasies. Do you see my point?

A. Yes, I understand your position but I must respectfully disagree with you assessment. What you fail to take into account in your equation is the male submissive顺从 — willing to obey nature. The D&S builds intimacy and transports the man to that submissive顺从 — willing to obey zone. This is a place where the female rules supreme as it encompasses not only the physical but also the mental and the spiritual.

A wife is a man’s authority figure but a wife is not a man’s mother. Therefore, to assign chores and bark out commands with no D&S exploration or deep intimacy will not touch a man’s submissive顺从 — willing to obey nature. You have to motivate a man by discovering and utilizing a man’s submissive顺从 — willing to obey triggers. This is where the D&S and the FemDom女性支配 — female domination in the bedroom comes into play.