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Q. Dear Ms Sutton, Two months ago my wife and I tried the FemDom女性支配 — female domination lifestyle for a few weeks. She's naturally dominant and I've had submissive顺从 — willing to obey tendencies all my life. There was so much peace and harmony in the house. Unfortunately, after we tried it out we encountered four major obstacles:

1) Since the relationship entails bringing more sexual energy into the relationship my wife complained that I was too interested in sex, that my whole life had become about sex, and that it's all I could think about. Yes it was true.

2) I wasn't able to maintain a proper erection in order to give her satisfactory pleasure. I'm a healthy 29 year old man who normally has no problem, but once I became extremely submissive顺从 — willing to obey I just couldn't get it up and if I did, I'd have a premature ejaculation. My wife became very frustrated at my inability to please her in this way.

3) I noticed that many (although certainly not all) websites discussing female led marriage discuss cuckoldry. Once I discovered my own inability to please my wife and her disappointment I started to understand why. I know for certain that is a line I don't want to cross and I'm afraid that if we continued with a female led marriage, and my inability to maintain erection, I could easily end up getting excited by the idea and wanting to introduce her to it.