Q&A Forum - Best of Elise

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4) I started losing my drive in life and my ability to think for myself. I get such joy out of saying "yes dear" to everything my wife tells me that I found myself beginning to stop thinking for myself. I also noticed my level of drive had dropped.

I discussed these concerns with my wife and we both agreed that although we ABSOLUTELY LOVED the loving female authority dynamic that this was too high a price to pay. As a result we had to decide not continue the trial.

I'm still interested in making it work, but we both have the concerns listed above. Have you come across these concerns before and do you know how to address any of them?

A. I will be addressing the power of the mind in more detail in the entry that follows, but it seems your situation seems to have some contradictions.

First, let me say that I am pleased to hear that your brief experiment with Female Domination produced peace and harmony in your home. Which leads to the question, why would you stop? Like any worthwhile endeavor, there will be ups and downs and some challenges but if this lifestyle was bearing the fruit of peace and harmony for you and your wife, I cannot understand why you would stop after only a few weeks? Be that as it may, let’s take a look at your concerns.