Q&A Forum - Best of Elise

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You say you are twenty-nine and are attracted to the concept of FemDom女性支配 — female domination, which makes you sexually excited to the point that your wife wants you to tone it back a little. Yet, you are having some difficulties getting it up? Furthermore, you have no trouble becoming erect when you are in a vanilla普通性爱 — sex without kink relationship, yet you are having difficulty when she dominates you, even though you are excited about being dominated. That seems to be a contradiction. I don’t doubt what you say but I am just trying to reason through your situation. I can only make the assumption that this is due to a mental block caused by how you perceive her attitude. Not necessarily her attitude, but rather how you perceive her attitude.

You then say that when you do become erect, you have difficulty with premature ejaculation. This I understand and that makes more sense because you are experiencing a sexual excitement you have never known before and you are so excited that you cannot maintain focus and thus you are overcome with sexual excitement, hence the premature ejaculation.