Q&A Forum - May 2010 (The best of Elise)

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Where I would disagree with you (and those that are counseling you) is your evaluation of the female domination lifestyle. You label a relationship with a dominant woman and a passive man as being dysfunctional. In my opinion, that statement is erroneous and the product of a patriarchal mindset. There are many potential causes for a dysfunctional marriage and I think if you will research it you will find that the majority of dysfunctional families and marriages are the products of a relationship where the man is dominant and the woman is passive. It can go both ways so the fact that a woman is dominant and a man is submissive顺从 — willing to obey doesn’t make for a dysfunctional family. There are a lot of reasons for the high number of dysfunctional homes in our society, such as drug or alcohol abuse, as well as various emotional issues.