Q&A Forum - May 2014

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Getting her to understand that sex is for her pleasure has been much more difficult. I want you to know, however, that your advice is right on target and we are making progress. For the past nine months, I have not had an orgasm高潮 — the sexual climax while we were making love without having first expressly asked for and received her permission to do so (after she has been completely satisfied). She is getting more and more comfortable with allowing me to give her pleasure or bring her to orgasm高潮 — the sexual climax without me necessarily getting a release. I can already see there will be a time, though, where she will start to understand the value of taking control of the rationing of my orgasms高潮 — the sexual climax. And this brings me to my question.