Q&A Forum - May 2014

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I know all about perverted behavior and that is why I get my feathers up when someone tries to group natural desires and natural acts, like those that exist in Female Domination, with perverted acts. The majority of desires associated with FemDom女性支配 — female domination are natural and common. A perversion is that which is outside the natural and outside the normal. A perversion is abnormal. The male submissive顺从 — willing to obey nature is natural and how that nature is expressed through different desires is also natural. The root cause is very normal.

What is important is that the expression of that nature remains rooted and grounded in reality. It is only when a person crosses that line and has a problem staying planted in reality with their fantasies that a desire can become a perversion. Fantasies are perfectly Ok as long as the person who harbors the fantasy recognizes what is practical and what is impractical. Many fantasies can become a reality as long as the people involved are educated to what is acceptable, safe and healthy and what is unacceptable, unsafe and unhealthy. A perversion is when a person crosses that line and engages in an unsafe and unhealthy activity.