Q&A Forum - May 2014

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Thanks for the comments and please never forget that people are special creations made in the image of God. Their lifestyles and chosen sexual practices may not sit with your morality and you have every right to reject those practices in your own life, but never forget that you are no better or no worse than anyone else. God is no respecter of people. Who are we to sit in judgment of others? We are not to judge others unless we want to be judged ourselves. Therefore, it is better to educate people about risky and harmful behavior and to encourage people to keep their heads grounded in reality.

Q. Lady Elise, I wanted to express to you how your books and your web site is transforming my life and how they've served to be the catalyst for my present catharsis. Forgive me if this is a tired old question.

I am working my way through the forum archives and they are totally illuminating. But I am a complete novice eager to begin the journey and so this is all very new to me. I am a sexual submissive顺从 — willing to obey eager for proper training. I've looked at my life and now realize how it has always lacked structure and discipline.

I do not relish the idea of being hit with whips, although would gladly endure that and more for my lover, should she desire it or feel it necessary. However I see that there are many who are drawn to this lifestyle who have sadomasochistic needs. So this is a more general question I suppose, rather than a personal one.