Q&A Forum - November 2008 (Best of Elise)

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Your best bet is to build a relationship with a woman where you show her respect and you go out of your way to serve her and meet her needs. Build a relationship where you feel comfortable sharing with each other, then at some point, if you feel she is open enough, you can share with her your desire to be spanked by a woman. But that must not be the foundation of your relationship nor your motivation of starting a relationship. But if you do build a relationship with a woman for all the right reasons, then a part of that relationship should be openness where you can be who you are with her and part of that is being honest with her about what you desire. It will not happen overnight but in the long-term it will be fulfilling and special. That is much better than pinning your hopes that a female stranger will overhear you talking about your need to be spanked and will come up to you to offer her services.

However, if you are in faster need of a spanking at the hands of a woman, I would suggest a professional Dominatrix女支配者 — a dominant woman. For the great value of only a few hundred dollars, you can experience your fantasy tomorrow (depending where you live). There are many qualified women who can make your first spanking experience a memorable experience. Why is hiring a professional out of the question? A quality Dominatrix女支配者 — a dominant woman will be discreet and it will be money well spent (until you can meet that special someone). Take care.