Q&A Forum - November 2015

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The same goes for a Professional Dominatrix女支配者 — a dominant woman. If a woman places a small ad in the City alternative newspaper advertising Domination, I would be leery if she has no credentials. Does she have a website? Does she advertise in reputable publications such as DDI? Are there any reviews about her on the Internet? How many years of experience does she have? If she is new, can any experienced Doms vouch for her?

It is up to the male to ensure that he is visiting a reputable and safety conscious Dominatrix女支配者 — a dominant woman. Most experienced Doms will have an interview process prior to a session. The purpose is to get to know their client and to learn of his submissive顺从 — willing to obey desires so that she can construct a session for him. If he is a novice, a reputable Dom will go slow and experiment with the light stuff as she gauges his submissive顺从 — willing to obey nature and his limitations.

I think it is horrible what this woman did to your husband. Experiences like this are what gives the opponents of D&S the legal footing to try to come after this lifestyle and the profession of the Dominatrix女支配者 — a dominant woman. However, thankfully these types of bad experiences are rare and are the exception and not the norm.