Q&A Forum - November 2015

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There is another possibility here and I would be remiss if I didn’t mention it. It is possible that your husband requested this kind of scenario. If he signed a contract and if he told her that he was an advanced player and if he requested to play this game, then it is possible that she is an experienced Dom who has successfully engaged in these types of scenarios before, but this time something went wrong. I can’t condone the use of drugs but it is possible she specialized in interrogation scenarios. That may be why she had him sign a contract. Anytime an intense session takes place to this degree, something can go wrong. She did call 9-1-1 so it is doubtful she wanted anything bad to happen to him. I am not making excuses for her but you would be amazed what some men ask for in a D&S session and some Doms will comply as long as the client accepts responsibility for the potential dangers.

Pro Doms face this risk and that is the purpose of a signed contract. Pro Doms have been charged and have gone on trial when a session turns bad. A man can suffer a heart attack or an accident can happen where he throws out his back during a bondage捆绑 — being tied or restrained session or he dislocates his shoulder or breaks a bone. The more advanced the session and the more physical the session, the higher the risk. But the reputable Dom will lower those risks through her skill and education and that is why a submissive顺从 — willing to obey male must be responsible to seek out a reputable Dom.