Q&A Forum - October 2007 (The best of Elise)

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The problem is that she refuses to let me serve her financially. She says that no self respecting woman will take money from a man and to do so is only a half step above prostitution. I try to assure her that there are no strings attached, just as there never has been with anything else I've done for her. She won't hear of it. She won't even let me help her in emergencies; when her car breaks down, she would rather borrow money from friends. She does allow me to buy gifts for her and her children at times.

Ms. Sutton, I've always lived a frugal life by choice. I own a plumbing contracting business, and I've saved and invested my money. I could easily give my Mistress女主人 — a woman who leads a submissive partner 60% of my income without altering my lifestyle. I would love to deposit substantial weekly payments into her account if only she would let me. She's very dominant and demanding of my time and effort in other areas; she's often told me that whenever I'm not working I ought to be attending to her needs. She just won't budge when it comes to finances, and this is an area where I feel she needs help. Is there something in all of this I'm missing? Am I being arrogant and disrespectful toward her? Thank you so much.