Q&A Forum - October 2007 (The best of Elise)

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A. All you can do is offer and then you must respect her decision. She is in charge of this relationship and she makes the decisions. Your role is to serve her and it sounds like you are doing a marvelous job in tending to her domestic needs. That is what she desires from you and as long as you are gaining submissive顺从 — willing to obey fulfillment from being the domestic servant of a woman, you should count your blessings and continue to strive to be the best domestic servant possible.

I can fully understand where you might become frustrated when you witness this woman struggling financially and you have the means to help. I think you did the correct thing when you offered to help her out financially. After all, your role is to meet the needs of your Mistress女主人 — a woman who leads a submissive partner and she obviously has some needs in this area. So your heart is in the right place and I commend you for having such a willingness to make sacrifices for this woman. You obviously have realized that there is no greater joy in life for a man than to serve a woman sacrificially.