Q&A Forum - October 2007 (The best of Elise)

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I need to mention that not all male dominant/female submissive顺从 — willing to obey couples were like this. I did see some couples that you could tell loved each other and had a good relationship. But from my wife’s perspective, she was most uncomfortable with what she saw from the male dom/female sub顺从者 — a submissive person couples at this event.

I reminded her that everything she saw as far as the BDSM activities (Whippings, Bondage捆绑 — being tied or restrained, Humiliation羞辱 — shame given on purpose, S&M) the same activities were occurring with the female dominant/male submissive顺从 — willing to obey couples but she didn’t seem to mind watching a dominant female whip a submissive顺从 — willing to obey male. My wife says that is different because a man is stronger than a woman and it seemed more acceptable when the woman was in the dominant role. What are your feelings about this?

A. To be honest, I really do not want to get into a discussion about the differences between dominant women and submissive顺从 — willing to obey women when it comes to weight or outward appearance. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and some men find bigger women to be attractive. Let’s skip the discussion about physical appearance and focus more on the other aspects.