Q&A Forum - October 2010 (Best of Elise)

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Whenever you are wired in such a way that places you into a sexuality that is a minority when it comes to the societal norm, you cannot be overly picky. You can network yourself with like-minded people but ultimately your goal is to find that special woman whom you can submit to. She may already be in your life or she may come into your life but if you seek to fulfill your sexuality with her prior to building that relationship based on friendship and trust, you might scare her off before she has had a chance to know your soul.

I am not an expert on trans-gender issues. It is not an area I have much experience. But I like your approach. I think too many people jump into GRS when perhaps a FemDom女性支配 — female domination relationship with the right woman would have brought them fulfillment. Are some women born as men and are some men born as women? I tend to lean toward the answer “No”. But that is just my personal opinion. I do believe that the submissive顺从 — willing to obey nature in some men is so strong that it takes them into these unique areas of their sexuality. Would a man who is so in touch with the feminine be better off as a woman? That is a question I cannot answer. I think a man would be better off being feminized by a woman, perhaps even with some mild form of hormone therapy, but without the drastic step of GRS.