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It's the same with your marriage. Your husband doesn't want to rise up and be in charge. He is submissive顺从 — willing to obey and his strengths are in other areas. You on the other hand, are dominant and would be a natural as the head of your marriage. God gives us talents and abilities and we should utilize these and not try to be what we are not. Women are better equipped to lead the marriage. These men are following old traditions that have nothing to do with loving God or each other. So find a church that will allow you to be who you are and will encourage you to seek God and to read the scriptures for yourselves, and not a church that dictates to you what you must be and what you must believe. Christianity is a personal relationship between you and your Creator.

Q. Elise, I noticed on your profile page that you don't have children. My husband and I have two children ages six and ten. How would you suggest that we go about a female domination lifestyle with children around?

A. It is important that you protect your children's innocence and not expose them to any kind of sexual or dominance activities between you and your husband. You must allow your children to grow up as normal children and you must protect them from seeing or experiencing anything that, due to their age and immaturity, they are not equipped to emotionally handle.

Therefore, only play and practice your D&S lifestyle when the children are away or when you go away without the kids. You will have to steal away to play.