How To Get Started: Questions asked by the Novice Dominant Woman:

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A. Thanks for writing. Over the years I have talked with many women who have felt the same way you do about this subject. A lot of wives have felt pressured by their husbands to become the fulfillment of their husband's fantasies. Believe me, that is not what I am about. I try to encourage women to be themselves and to celebrate their own uniqueness that makes each of us special. I encourage men to revere and to serve their wives in a way that is pleasing to her. After all, true submission is to serve in a non-selfish manner. A true submissive顺从 — willing to obey man should strive to make his wife happy and fulfilled, whether she sees herself as dominant, submissive顺从 — willing to obey, or whatever. I am sorry if your husband has pressured you to write to me. Men often make the mistake that I will side with them. The fact is, I usually side with the woman because I can empathize with her, as I usually understand from where she is coming.