How To Get Started: Questions asked by the Novice Dominant Woman:

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I am not trying to make excuses for your husband. All I can do is tell you what I believe based on my studies and experiences. I challenge you to do your own research. There are reasons men have this desire. It is formed primarily from their childhood and their relationships with the female authority figures in their life. There are other factors but the root cause can usually be traced to childhood and adolescence. Another reason is, in my humble opinion, is that women are designed to be in charge. Society has had things backwards and a man's natural submissive顺从 — willing to obey nature has been repressed and bottled up so it finds its expression through sexual fantasies. Now please don't misunderstand me. I am not saying that women need to be "Super Women" and take on all responsibilities. As a matter of fact, I believe that men and women both have different strengths and weaknesses. We compliment each other and we must work together as a team to be successful. However, there has to be a Quarterback of a team. There must be a President of a company, a boss of an employee, a final authority figure and decision maker. I believe that it should be the wife in a marriage. The reason those women have to take drugs to cope with stress and fight depression is because they are trying to do it all themselves. I can assure you that I don't take Prozac and I don't know of any women that are in this lifestyle that do either. If anything, we have less stress and depression because we allow our husbands to serve us in the manner that we need servitude (which varies from woman to woman based on her needs).