Q&A Forum - August 2004

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Where you need to bring change is by letting her know (in very subtle ways) that climaxing is not what you desire. You ask permission but she thinks you are asking because you want to hear her say “Yes”. You need to communicate to her that you would like her to control your sex life and that means having her occasionally denying your request for orgasm高潮 — the sexual climax.

How do you do this? First, don’t be in such a rush to take this next step. Allow her to grow at her pace. She is responding positively to your submission thus far. So enjoy what you have and slowly introduce new activities into your servitude. When the time is right and you sense her receptiveness to your submission during sex, communicate to her how much you love her and how you want her to control your sex life by controlling your orgasms高潮 — the sexual climax. Place the emphasis on how her beauty makes you feel inferior to her and how nothing would make you happier than having her being in charge of your sex life.