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Your third point about cuckolding really does not apply to you because I doubt if your wife is interested in that. You might be, but it seems you should work on the fundamentals of serving your wife. All other things will take care of themselves in due course.

I am not discounting your observation about how some couples evolve into a cuckolding lifestyle over time as the woman gains more power and the man becomes more submissive顺从 — willing to obey, but this is not your relationship at this time. A few weeks are simply not long enough to “try” this lifestyle. It takes a commitment and then a follow-through to that commitment, with plenty of exploration and communication in order to experience growth. You both need to give it more time.

And that brings us to your fourth point. There could be many reasons you feel as if your personal drive is diminishing. That brings me back to the mental realm. You say that you kind of surrender your drive with a “Yes, Dear!” mentality. What are we talking about here, your male ego or your performance in your career? It seems you have the cart before the horse. What if your wife said, “I want you to excel on your job.” Would you say, “Yes, Dear!” and obey her?