Q&A Forum - September 2004

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The second thing I want to ask you about is about pregnancy. My wife has decided to have a baby, but she’s not sure that she wants it to be from my seed. She’s read your views that pregnancy should be between a woman and her boy, so I would love to have a good response from you. Her view is that my family’s history of medical problems (heart disease, Alzheimer’s, and some mental illness) is not something that she would want to risk on her child. She also doesn’t want my red hair on her child – especially if she has a girl. She likes the sun – my arch enemy.

She has looked into artificial insemination by a sperm-donor, but recently has found a lover who she thinks would make a healthy and beautiful baby. She has cuckolded me for the past year, which I am comfortable with (I am in chastity禁欲 — being kept from orgasm, and I have no say in the matter anyway), but I don’t know how I feel about her having a baby with another man. She wants to bring it up with him in the next few weeks or so and will make her decision soon.

Is there something that I can do to convince her to have her baby with me? Thank you for your consideration.